Why have relationships if all you want to individuality? We get so caught up in the self-help moment that we are forgetting we are a part of a group. It is great to have a sense of self, only to make you confident about what you bring to a group. We as humans were born with Love and belonging as a part of our DNA. We should never offset our born right for the selfish pursuit of self-preservation. Ultimately, we are better when everyone is striving to make our relationships better.